Whenever you find out someone has cheated on you, who do you take your anger out on? I'm going to go out on a limb here and say, you’ll be upset at your now ex-boyfriend, but what about the girl? After all, it's takes two to tango.
Take for example the recent scandal involving Jason Aldean, he's the one doing the apologizing, but has anyone heard from Brittany Kerr? He's not the only guilty party here and there's no way she can pretend she didn't know he is a married man with two children, I mean, he's a celebrity. So, if you ask me, she has an equal amount of blame and shame to share with Jason.
I have a few friends that will say that they won’t take it out on the girl, but I feel that there are exceptions to the rule.
If the girl your ex-man is having an affair with knows you and knows about the relationship I find it completely acceptable to lash out at her! I’m not condoning violence here, but I do feel that you can approach her and demand some answers on why she’s such a wicked witch. I personally have found out that I had been cheated on and it hurts more when you find out the girl has been someone you’ve hung out with before... leaving you left with an ex-boyfriend and an ex-friend.
If you’ve never seen this girl before, give her the benefit of the doubt and let her know that the jerk has been two-timing both of you. If she reveals that she knew he was in a relationship and just didn’t care, then she’s just revealed how classy she is to you. Take that as a sign that you’re better off. Trash deserves to be with trash. If the other girl didn’t know he was already in a relationship, calmly let her know and then you both need to ditch him. Maybe even a friendship can blossom from the two of you and then later laugh about the loser that was trying to be a player.
If you chose to stay in a relationship where the guy has cheated, just know that once the trust is broken it’s very hard to get back. You’ll constantly be wondering what he is doing. It will be slow progress to gain back trust, and reverse to happier times.
And guys, if you’re lucky enough that she stayed with your sorry behind, you better believe if you do it again, she won’t be staying. You better be kissing up and apologizing if you want the relationship to work.
Unlike men, ladies don't forgive so easily. We see Robert Pattinson reconciling with Kristen Stewart, although she cheated on him with her married boss, Rupert Sanders. Hello, Rob should be sharing a piece of his mind to that guy! I think the Twilight movies may have gotten to his head.
Just remember this important tip, we might not be celebrities, but everything will come into the light! Chances are you will get caught!
What are you thoughts on cheating?
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